Skip All The Games By Using Sex Dating Sites

The Friends Want To Bar Hop

It's 11pm on the strip somewhere and a guy is flashing his roll of cash at the bar. Yep, he's buying the drinks, he's using all the game he learned in books, and maybe he'll get lucky. Except that her friends want to go and she's maybe a little too drunk to drive herself home. All of a sudden he's the bad guy, she's getting stared down by her posse and he's left out to dry that night. Why did this happen? Was he not good enough at talking to women? Maybe he just wasn't clever or fascinating enough. Either way, it probably wasn't his fault. Women at bars aren't on the prowl (in the same way) like almost every single man out on the town. Guys want to get laid, have fun, and get back to work the next week. That pretty girl across the bar has her own agenda in mind and it's probably gonna take longer to get in bed than you would like.

 

Dating online is a way to skip past all the atrocious social rituals we have for meeting someone sexually interesting. There are plenty of people online who know what they want and go for it by actively keeping in touch and setting up no-nonsense dates. There's always an element of getting to know the person you're meeting in person for the first time but at least you know you have the same idea of fun in mind. You will discover going out to the bar is a lot more fun when you're with someone intriguing who has already expressed that they want you.

 

She's Not Over Her Ex

Have you ever been talking to a woman who is sexy, not crazy, and says she wants a “simple relationship.” A couple of drinks later it seems like everything is going great until suddenly she has a confession to make – she just broke up with her ex. No big deal right? Except that's not all... she's not over him. “I feel like I can trust you,” she begins to sob and then the water works begin. Suddenly it's clear why it was so easy to approach this person. Frankly, all the emotion can be a huge turn off for many people. Don't feel guilty if you've ever felt like high-tailing it out of the party, you're not alone.

 

Meeting people online is a low-risk way to meet people who clearly know what they want and aren't afraid to get it. Ok, someone you meet online may not be over their ex but at least they've accepted it and are ready to move on. Everybody likes to have fun. For some people that means meeting up for casual sex, there's nothing wrong with that.

 

Skip the Beer Goggles

It's getting late, you've had a few, and that clingy girl at the bar is starting to look better by the minute. The next morning might be a nightmare but that's not what's going through your mind just this second. Avoid the beer goggles by knowing what your date looks like beforehand. It might be a little detail now but you'll save yourself some embarrassment the next morning, especially if you have roommates. Save time, be direct, and skip all those bar/club/party games by meeting girls online.

 

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